DATING SELF SERIES: When Ladies’ Night Turns Into Single’s Night Out

Last year I started a ladies’ night out among the ladies in my circle. It was also opened to new faces. The ladies’ night was on a monthly basis. We had an amazing time out for the first night out. That was actually our only night out. No one seemed…

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5 Steps to Safe-Proof Your Celibacy

Remaining celibate takes more than a commitment. If you have read tip 1 and tip 2, you’ll see that a commitment is needed but there are also some things that you have to face to maintain your celibacy. Today I wanted to go beyond those two things because, as I…

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Dealing With the Inner-Me to Maintain Celibacy

I know that it’s common to believe that to become celibate all you need to do is make a commitment that you would be celibate until marriage. I believed that too until I lived something different. There’s more to celibacy than making a commitment.

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I Made a Commitment of Purity to Myself Not God and Here’s Why

Yes, you read that right. I am celibate and I made that commitment to myself. There’s a story behind why I did it that way. I’m going to tell you why in a little bit but I would like to share with you the back story and why it became…

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The Secret for Marrying Potential Revealed

One of the hottest questions I’ve heard about dating and marriage is, “Can you marry potential.” Some people will say no because they feel that you can’t change a person nor will marriage change them for you. That is true. I person will have to want change on their own.…

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When the Storm Hits and You Slip into a Puddle

This year has been an extremely hard year for me. I have gotten to the point where I am so positive that it doesn’t make sense to the average person, but I still feel it when the storms hit my life. I’m no stranger to storms hitting my life. I…

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